"Working with Bart and Lion’s Den has had a profound impact on my journey to becoming a more loving, intentional husband and leader. I wish I had discovered it sooner."

Chris Noth
Hollywood Actor
"Mr. Big" from HBO's Sex and the City

Most men never see it coming...

One day you’re living in your home, sleeping in your bed, having dinner with your wife.

The next, she’s talking about space… separation… maybe even divorce .

And you’re left standing there, wondering how you went from sharing life… to barely speaking. 

It’s honestly like getting hit by a freight train.

I know because it happened to me and I want to make sure you don't make the same mistakes I did.

Here’s what I’ve learned after years of coaching men in this exact place:

Trust doesn’t disappear overnight. 

It erodes quietly over time through fear-based behaviors.

Things like:

❌ Getting defensive
❌ Complaining
❌ Venting
❌ Controlling
❌ Reacting
❌ Shutting down
❌ Avoiding

Until the emotional bridge snaps and she leaves you on the other side.

When that bridge is gone, the instinct most men have—

❌ Reasoning
❌ Begging
❌ Pleading
❌ Over-explaining

- only pushes her further away.

It feels like you’re fighting for your marriage… but what she feels is pressure.

And pressure isn’t safety.

I work with men who are in the thick of it.

Sometimes they’re still at home.

Often they’re out of the house, unsure if they’ll ever move back in.

We focus on two things:

1️⃣ Rebuilding her sense of safety so she can even consider trusting you again.
2️⃣ Becoming the kind of man she wants to trust.

This isn’t about grand gestures or gifts.

It’s about steady, principle-driven actions that shift her experience of you day after day.

Some of my clients have turned things around in weeks.

Others have rebuilt marriages they thought were lost for good.

It starts with understanding the exact patterns that broke the trust… and knowing what to do instead.

If you’re ready to stop reacting in ways that make things worse…

and start leading in a way that makes her feel safe again… I can help.

I run a program called The Lion’s Den.

It’s not therapy (I know a lot about therapy).

It's built for men in crisis who need next-level support.

No waiting a week for advice, no wondering what to do.

In fact, we have 10x the support of traditional therapy with... 

✅ over 75 tools
✅ weekly 1:1 and/or group coaching calls
✅ 12 weeks of challenge-based learning
✅ an iOS learning & community app
✅ and a community of husbands and fathers in your situation

It’s a proven operating system to get you out of the panic, get your footing back, and bring stability.

If you want to explore, apply below ⬇️

We often offer a complimentary coaching session to those qualify and a free assessment. 

Every day you stay in the dark is another day the gap widens.

Let's go,

Bart
Founder & Coach
The Lion's Den Program

From confusion to clarity.  

Former athlete, husband and father came into the Lion's Den on the brink of divorce. After a brutal journey of ups and downs his marriage has never been better.
Listen to interview.